Know What You Want

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Matt 20:32  And Jesus stopped and called them, and said, ”What do you want Me to do for you?”33  They said to Him, “Lord, we want our eyes to be opened.”34  Moved with compassion, Jesus touched their eyes; and immediately they regained their sight and followed Him.

What would you say if Jesus asked you this question? If you had a million dollars, how would you spend it? Knowing what you want is a foundation principle to achieving it. As a matter of fact, if you will do the following, you will begin to see the things you want getting closer in just a few weeks.

Write Your Goals

What do you want to do with your life? How do you want your time to be spent? What would make you proud to have accomplished by your death date?

Writing your goals in a practice that many people do. It’s incredibly powerful and will help you focus.

Write Out Your Philosophy

This is something I stumbled across a few years ago. I was working at a church that was so terrible it was making me want to leave the ministry entirely. I was being asked to do things that were wrong in my core. However, I could articulate what I really believed.

So one day I sat in my office and wrote for about four hours. I just started typing… any and everything I could think that I believed about ministry. I wrote it knowing that things would change over time, but it helped me identify what I believe. It helped me identify what I would and wouldn’t do. It helped me understand what would satisfy me and what would make me want to leave the ministry. From the creation of this document, I have been a happy, stronger and more confident minister and individual.

Written Plan

How are you going to get there. Think outside of the American Dream. The American Dream says you have to furnish your house. If you’re goal is to get our of debt, furniture is again your goal… sit on the ground. Do whatever it takes to achieve the prize.

Do It

Yeah, just do it. Stop talking an do it. The simplest yet hardest thing to so is to shut up and do it! But JUST DO IT!

That’s my thought for today. Blessings!

Favorite Things: LegalSounds.com

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Two words: CHEAP MUSIC.

I need music, but we are pretty frugal around the Mayfield house. (We won’t to be free of all debt.) LegalSounds.com (LS) has been a great way for me to freely spend money on music. (I spend about $30/mo… $25 is my budget, but I’m bad!) It’s a fraction of the cost of iTunes, so I’m turning 30 songs into hundreds.

I thought it would communicate best if I gave a pros and cons list, and occasionally reference iTunes, sense we all use it!

The Pros.

It’s cheap. iTunes charges $.99 – $1.29 for songs. LS only charges $.09.

A lot of music is available. Most mainstream stuff is available… However, it’s still not quite as expansive as iTunes.

The Cons.

Lesser quality bitrate. iTunes offers songs at 256 kbps, most LS songs are much lower. (however, the soon coming Music Match service from iTunes might be a great fix for that.

It’s not as efficient. iTunes is in many respects the ends and the means. It’s all integrated… our shopping, storing and listening. LS requires you to buy songs THEN add them to your iTunes library… but you’re saving a lot of money.

It’s not as user-friendly. iTunes is extremely intuitive. LS requires some getting used to, but it’s not terrible.

 

I would highly recommend you to give LegalSounds.com a try. It’s worth the extra time to be able to buy albums for the price of songs.

"Quitter" – By Jon Acuff

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Recently I read a book by Jon Acuff called Quitter. I’ve never read much from Acuff, but was drawn to the book.

The books main focus is on doing your dream job while working your day job. In the beginning of the book Acuff says, “I hated that my dreams had to go into hibernation every Monday,” speaking of his day job not being his dream job.

He discussed through most of the book that your day job can be a great advancer of your dream job. He gives some advice for discovering your dream, gives some great tips for living your dream, debunks some myths that we believe keep us from our dream and helps you discern when the right time is to step into your dream job full time.

Now, you might be saying, “Jason, why did you read this? Aren’t you living your dream job?” Well… yes and no. I am living my dream job. I’ve wanted to be a music pastor for almost 15 years, and I’ve been doing it for more than 5 of those years. Never-the-less, I don’t think it’s what I always want to do. I do believe I will pastor a church one day. So, in many respects I’m applying these principles to that dream. In other ways, I’m not the music pastor I dream of being yet… in part because the dream is expanding.

Let me share some of the great quotes from the book…

“We buy into the lie that work is usually miserable.”

“Despite the idea that quitting your job is the new American dream, it’s usually the worst thing you can do right now.”

“Dreams tend to challenge the status-quo.”

“People get comfortable and often see dreamers as a threat.”

“Other people will try to smooth out the edges for you.”

“Discipline and focus are contagious and they tend to spread their benefits all around.”

“Escaping imperfect circumstances is not a purpose.”

“If your goal is to change the world, you have to step our and share your work.”

“Perfectionism seems like a character trait sometimes, and not a flaw. People don’t normally see it as the poison is is until someone burns out or has a breakdown.”

“Quit perfect. It’s an unnecessary obstacle. Chase the idea of your dream being better finished at 90 percent than perfect and not pursued.”

“Start small. Start slow. Get better.”

“One of the costs of notoriety is safety.”

“That’s one of the simple rules of hustle. Do more of the things you love and less of the things you like.”

“Quantity leads to quality. The more you practice your dream, the better you get at your dream.”

“Measure the things you can control before the things you can’t.”

“That’s why it’s called a dream job, and not a perfect job.”

“Start where you are. Start with what you have. Start today.”

Those are just a fraction of the highlights I made in the book. I really enjoyed it. Let me share one more thought before I leave you…

One of the principles he talked about was making your dream happen without quitting your job AND without sacrificing your family time. He spoke on taking time from yourself and not from your work and family or other obligations. So let me ask, how much time do we waste on facebook, youtube, TV…? How much time could you take from your sleep? Could you wake up a few hours earlier? Where will you inject time to start fulfilling your dream?

Blessings! Be Encouraged.

Why debt?

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Why do we need to be in debt? Probably because we choose to be.

I don’t want to be in debt to man or institutions. We serve the almighty God, to whom all things belong.

Haggai 2:8 “‘The silver is Mine and the gold is Mine,’ declares the Lord.”

Psalm 24:1 “The earth is the Lord’s, and all it contains…”